Because sometimes, it's easier written than said., has your bf ever cheated on you? if so how do you learn to get pass it and move forward as a couple? i have been with my bf for about 4 years and he cheated on me the first year we were together. i let it go but i havent completely gotten over it even though we’re doing good now.

has your bf ever cheated on you? if so how do you learn to get pass it and move forward as a couple? i have been with my bf for about 4 years and he cheated on me the first year we were together. i let it go but i havent completely gotten over it even though we're doing good now.

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Yes, he has.. I guess I’ve done him wrong, so it’s kinda like fair?! But not really. I never cheated, but I wasn’t all innocent. I’ve had my share of wrongs, but his, was way worst. Move on as a couple!? Hm.. Idk about that. I’ve never ever let go of that night. Actually couple weeks. It actually drives me insane! Its literally in the back of my head, every second of the day.. Idk how to explain it. Sometimes even when he’s right next to me, I think about it. Esp the recent trucking trip. I was unhappy the entire trip. When he was sleeping, I wasn’t even sleeping. It was replaying in my head the whole fucking night. I mind fuck myself. It gets to me so fucking bad. It kills me. But now that I’m busy I don’t even have time to think about it. But trust me, it’ll never go away. Unless one day we get hit in the head and lose our memory. Besides that, either accept it, or you won’t ever be happy. I accept it for what it is. I guess I just love him so much… Stupid as it sounds…

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